Overcoming Fear

October 5, 2017

Whether it’s starting your own business, implementing a big change, putting yourself out there for that promotion..these are things that require you go out on a limb and potentially set yourself up for failure. Unfortunately, when you do something potentially life changing like this, fear always comes creeping in to say “but what you fail?”. So, what if you fail? You get told no? You have to try again? These things are not the end of the world! What if you don’t fail? What if you get the promotion, or your new business thrives? These are the questions that as business men and women we need to be asking ourselves. To do that, though, we must first figure out how to conquer the fear.

Everyone knows that the fear of upsetting your life or livelihood is paralyzing, literally. You can get stuck in the position you are currently in, indefinitely! The challenge is figuring out how to unstick yourself. The what-ifs will always be circling, so the key is to determine the positive what-ifs. What if I succeed?

The other thing to consider is what might happen if you don’t take these risks. As humans, we are always worried about the outcome of the risk. What is the outcome if you don’t take the risk. Sometimes that answer is scarier than if you were to take the risk, so put yourself out there.

Putting trust in yourself and your abilities is not something that comes easily to some, and fear will try and knock you down even further. If this is the case, ignore it. You know what you are capable of and what you need to do. The time is always now when it comes to the game of life, so make yours a life you are proud of and one where you are in control!


6 Tips to Overcome the Fear of Sales Rejection

May 28, 2015

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The time has come. You’re staring at your office phone knowing what you have to do. You start thinking of any and all of the “more important” things you should do first: maybe you should clean out your inbox or you haven’t organized your top drawer in who knows how long. What you should really be doing is making prospective sales calls. But it’s hard. It’s scary. You’re afraid of rejection. Here are 6 tips to overcome the fear of sales rejection.

  1. Be prepared. Cold calling a customer can be scary, but it can be even scarier to freeze up on the phone and not know what to say. Avoid this by preparing your materials ahead of time. Gather up offers and really know what you’re selling. This will give you confidence that you know your stuff.
  2. Have goals. This goes for long and short term sales goals. Think about why you want to reach these goals and use that motivation to pick up the phone. If you’re working towards something bigger, you’ll stay more focused on the task.
  3. It’s not you, it’s me. In most situations, this is actually the case. Maybe you caught the customer on their busiest day of the week, or the person you called doesn’t have the authority to make decisions. Whatever the real reason, don’t take rejection personally. Many people will say no, but you’re working towards that one yes.
  4. Plan. Dedicate a specific time every day to make sales calls. Once you get into a routine, it won’t be so scary and daunting. You know that right before lunch you make a few calls, or at 3pm every day. This will put sales calls onto your calendar and force you to practice and become more comfortable.
  5. No doesn’t mean never. Just because you get a rejection now, doesn’t mean that person will never be a customer. Try to find out why they’re really saying no, and remember that for next time. Try to have a conversation and keep your notes. This will help build a relationship the next time you call.
  6. What’s the worst that can happen? Think about it. The worst that happen is they’ll say no. That’s it. You’re not getting fired, you’re still breathing, and the world is still turning. All you have to do is call up the next one on your list. It’s that simple.

It can be really hard to overcome the fear of rejection. But remember, you’re going to be rejected. That’s inevitable. The real success is brushing it off and moving forward. If you don’t ask, no one will ever say yes.

How do you deal with rejection?